Is Shouting more Effective than Spanking?

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A burly gay hit men named veto or Reno was a member of the murderous Roy de Mayo crow -- a mob informant but returned to a life of crime in which shot dead not botched armed robbery. Okay and -- read before you -- next topic I want to read Marc Stein's column on Rush Limbaugh and the difference between. Rush Limbaugh. And the the White House -- the White House communications director Anita -- This what is this what is needed done said Mao Tse Tung says you fight your war and I'll fight mine you don't have to accept the definition of how to do things you fight your way. Your war you let them fight there is everybody has their own path. The third lesson in tip actually comes from two of my favorite political philosophers mouse say -- a Mother Teresa this is -- needed on the White House communications director. You've go you're going to make choices and she goes on talks about mouse and talk. Then he mentions Rush Limbaugh's quote. Slave rebuilt the south I'm not saying we should bring it back I'm just saying it had its merits for one thing the streets were safer after dark. That quotation was attributed to Rush Limbaugh he never -- there's no tape of him saying it there's no transcript of him saying it. After all he had done so would any point in the last twenty years someone would surely you mention that at the time. It is CNN MSNBC ABC other networks newspapers all around the country. Cheerfully repeated the pro slavery quotation and attributed it falsely to Rush Limbaugh. And planning a flat out lie in his mouth wound up getting rush bounce from a consortium hoping to by the St. Louis Rams. The second quotation hailing now. Was uttered back in June to an audience of high school students by needed on the White House communications director. I know she uttered it because I watched the words issuing former mouth on the Glenn Beck show on Fox News. But don't worry nobody else played at. 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Across the Warsaw pact the -- of the Communist prisons states lost their nerves. And the cell walls crumbled Matt Welch the editor of reason magazine's wonders why the anniversary is going all but -- observed. Why aren't we making more of the greatest mass liberation and history. Well says mark signed because to celebrate it would involve recognizing it as a victory over communism. And after the -- long march to the institutions of the west most are not willing to do that. There's the bad totalitarianism. Nazism. And the good totalitarianism. Communism. Who's apologists and indeed fetish as can still be found everywhere even on to the White House. It's. Rush Limbaugh's remarks are divisive needed guns are entirely normal. But don't worry the new fearless Fairness Doctrine will take care of the problem. 1877469432218774694322. As we know. From. The people's republic of required. Spanking is no longer socially acceptable. It is not politically correct to spank your -- So there's a story today in the New York Times it's kind of funny. For some parents shouting is the new spanking. They they talk about this woman named Jackie climate devoted mother two little boys in the suburbs of Portland Oregon she spends hours ferrying them to -- Kurds cub -- she read child development books. That's 90% of the time then there's the other 10% of the time when she admits I have become totally frustrated and lost control myself. It can happen during weeks and weeks and weeks of Nokia in the summer at the end of a long day at home. Just as adult pieces within our grasp when the seven or nine year old won't go to sleep. And then she else this is red pick kill us I've been doing things all day for you oh. This is a generation that yields. I've worked with thousands of parents and I can tell you without question that screaming is the new spanking. Says EB McCready the founder of positive. Parenting solutions which teaches parenting skills and classes individual coaching sessions and online course. This is so the issue right now as parents understand that it's not socially acceptable to spank children they are lost for what they can go. I suggest spanking spanking is still the best way mr. spanky is it to my kids are lol now for mr. spanky but. Mr. spanky is still better than that screaming at the kids in my humble opinion my humble mob PC opinion. They can resort to reminding and nagging timeout counting 123 and quickly realized that those strategies don't work to change behavior. In the absence of tools -- really work they feel frustrated and angry and raise their voices they feel guilty afterwards in the whole cycle began to get. You know people who who yell at their kids at their little kids. 18774694322."

" Your daughter Caroline says she only had to give bank once before she -- was nothing she went to ever do again that's right. And how much so for the other children and I don't yell at you we could go right Carolyn. I don't -- door yelling yeah she says you laugh together that's right we laugh. That what. It's 1 o'clock -- taking your photo way. Well well well well yes that computer Mets go to way to know -- A that's a good laugh so I like to laugh."

" Listen this this is gonna this is on one of these you know message ports my name is Francesca. Casting no Lee and I am a screamer. Begins a post on mother blogger -- earlier this year admitting I'm a mom that screams shouts and loses it in front of her kids. In front of her kids feels like I'm revealing a dark family secret. 18774694322. Do you scream -- your kids rather than not spank them war. Do you know people who scream a lot more than people used to scream at their kids or Ralph you're next with Howie -- go ahead Ralph."

" Hey how we always wondered -- screaming and spanking applied Barney Frank also of course."

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" There's several Democrats who need to be scribe that I related around you know -- the first it was. First it was Charlie Rangel for not paying his taxes now a golf -- towns as locking out the Republicans so that they can't vote to have him investigated for his dealings with countrywide mortgage. Yeah so someone needs to be doin' -- to those Democrats."

" I'll I I hoping that they'd be covered in more example that -- anyway got a serious note I grew up in the brick Fiat could lend. The lot of spanking that we're not in those days and have. I'm supposedly I'm told I'm really novel so anyway I I don't know how bad it is -- just one of those that trend that comes about and that I don't -- it should be. Really hear anything but a little bit about streets and sometimes doesn't hurt."

" I don't -- might have middle daughter Charlotte has already have threatened to take she's she's she's almost as big as me now and she is set I've threatened you uninstall this policy may yet she's not as broad as I am. And and she arrives threaten to -- take mr. speculator IO CMR spanky is coming out of retirement. As you know what she says. Bob Holland DS that assassinated certain point -- yes you know and they and they can defend and that's what a lot of this stuff is doing the New York Times it's not that people way people care about the political correctness they don't want it they don't wanna have -- DS -- comment. They don't want a cop responding without flashing blue lights that's what it's all that's what the reality is. Pat your next with how we cargo ahead --"

" All our what do topic -- food -- I -- oh my god would be unlocked and everything else though it usually goes along the lines of the yelling okay. Which is not a geologist begets more yelling premier Kevin is here. Here discussion. I came out and -- discussions with young said. You don't you'd do it both ways the way I've told it -- that. You know because if you start having discussion everything that I argument I don't have time -- infer that there are that sort of turned out into. I whacked by Carter and about a couple a time when she really needed to get battered and you know what what I'd do that I don't have to -- much because. -- they get certain -- but all point that it hasn't occurred or if they get their --"

" The problem that is if you if you if you don't have control of whom they become incredibly sensitive would you say -- that I had this problem this morning beat the younger kid was runnin' late and and Caroline was scream and matter of coming -- you know come down. And she said nobody told me it was time to believe. And I said -- the clock told you it was time. What time do we believe every morning you don't need me to tell you -- 715. Available at HIC a pouting in the backseat of the car I say what's wrong with Leo and she said you'll need debate. I -- like Trojan the clock told -- was -- to leave it means a."

" Oh we are chronic Billy -- go to that club that. All bad does that drive me crazy in your book believe they get out the door at night because and then when -- that now wait a form right. Are you ready after you almost falsely wait for doubt there are you're ready to go an --"

" But they're five minutes late I'm sitting down there waiting for warm and then is that they run down the stairs -- got odd cup and that's -- What. I've been waiting for you kids. -- your radar Qaeda all houses of the same when it comes to stuff like this pat thanks for the call 18774694322. Only three -- lot of we've got to shoot up the food court. Now now they did say that. They didn't say that was to reach buddies but said that -- an 8774694322. Frank your next with how we cargo ahead frank."

" Hey how we don't really hurts -- hitting someone that's what really hurt and -- very much against. Flapping children and you know what yelling at children at."

" Trying to slap a do that's why -- have mr. spanky."

" But you know what yelling at them as well can be very damaging and you know it's funny everyone makes light of it but you know what. What do kids you're."

" Most of -- frank how many kids the UF. Children okay all you don't called -- you called children do you never you never spanking new never yell at your kids is that what you're telling --"

" Because you know what I would stay till I was the other as a kid so look at my wedding -- estimates and you don't want it and made me feel bad. And I had years of therapy work."

" Well well I guess you know they -- up you're you're just you're just tried to be the classic mood back calling you didn't know why do you consider if you want to buy out giant dual therapy because you -- you were yelled that when you -- I had."

" Well I have a -- I. I had -- order because I was yelled -- because that was physically abused."

" A -- different than beings now I know I I've never physically abused Mike yeah 89 point 9% of the people don't physically abused their kids are always welcome."

" Or call flapping it's taking your child that got physical and physical abuse."

" You considered you consider being spank physical abuse."

" I've yet depends on how bad it hurt yes."

" How bad it's gotta hurt bad enough to get their attention it's gotta sting."

" Be there what's so much better we started our approach is psyche after it's all done after all the years go by --"

" All our media people -- say you know -- leaves another mark on your psyche is when you get to run over year for your your -- rob parents and did -- take control of the house when you're three years old. You grow up to be a monster."

" Gotten accomplished it do that there. Children that do that but the fact of the matter is for the most part if you sit deficit that child down and talk itself was that you go to work what is that many."

" That's -- New York Times the mood Battie is publication and America has has a knowledge did this story that -- Pine -- in the kind of BS you're talking about doesn't work. You gotta do something frank. It does work it did does are you are okay. I -- I have what I said yeah I know you're gonna you're gonna need some more therapy here for because -- about the -- yet it does. Total lacked -- start yellow that your kids."

" Thanks for the call 1877469432. To a -- car. Decisions -- thank you didn't know you stirred from a guy frank who says he would he want even shout at his kids. He had to undergo therapy. For years because he was shouted. The -- 18774694322. Rafael your next with Howard cargo ahead Rafael."

" LIR. I'm very very war on -- why are why why is it any old and I have a one year old. And if you hope -- article is how are. -- afraid to let current goal is because there's also urged the public -- and -- showed Billy Bob -- All -- orange alert so my daughter would you don't know what -- it was sort dolls are. -- out. So all I find it won't allow wide look yeah it's cheap because you."

" did not follow the -- Right exactly that's exactly the word I was gonna uses monster in -- soared thirty favors either no one's the bottom up you wanna get a favor by let them BA like that. The sooner or later they got to get slapped down figuratively or literally."

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